Moving on is a very humbling and emotional experience. Out of deep emotional turmoil our mind can easily shift to aggression to deal with a deep emotional breaking. The majority of the time its our pride that gets in the way of departure. It is hard to say goodbye when saying hello was so amazing. The feelings that we had for somebody changes when they want nothing to do with you. They blame our shortcomings for their decision when we overlook theirs. Admitting your faults is hard and I admit I do have shortcomings in my character. However, I honestly believe men are good, in the fact they will 9-10 help somebody in need. I am sorry for all the people I have wronged and lied to but my intentions have always been noble. We all might be in this for ourselves but we are all in it together. It's friendship and love that forgives your brother when he wrongs you and its your bond that helps him when he falls. Love is a complicated thing in one word but you should try and love all. Sometimes its just not meant to be, but always use the people you meet to your advantage so you can progress to greatness in the future. Everything happens for a reason and its to experiences that we can properly gauge the future. Never forget who you are and where you came from. Don't deny people the respect they deserve by sheltering them from your life when it is their actions that helped you succeed. It is always appropriate to seek council in times of frustration because they can provide clarity it times of turmoil. Live and let live.
M. Brian Bosma
